The. Stories. Are. Lies. You are worthy. You are beautiful. You are so incredibly lovable. There is not another person like you in the entire world.
Understand her history. Understand her past. Take the time to get to know why she operates the way that she does. Then you will see the many hurts, the disappointments, the reasons that she blocked herself off and learned to only trust herself.
There is nothing more painful than looking at the person you love beyond what you thought possible and knowing that you cannot make them stay.
Sometimes it feels like it would be easier if you never met them at all.